“That’s why I consider myself not just a survivor but a thriver,”
Doolittle said. She knew of several pieces for one-handed pianists but
she didn’t let herself be held back by that. Soon she was ad-libbing on
pieces, adding her personal flourish.
And then Doolittle had two children.
“I was going to have children no matter what,” Doolittle said. It was
challenging she admitted and certainly there were days when she said
she would head out the door of house, stand on the steps and scream at
the top of her lungs but she is very proud of her daughters today.
Mom was just Mom and they never knew Mom to be any different
than what she was. When the Doolittle girls went shopping or
anywhere, she had them trained to stand by the back bumper of the car
and wait for her until she got out of the car because they were always
out of the car before she was. They always had to hold a hand even
though neither one wanted to hold the ‘stroke’ hand. Running away
from Mom was not an option.
Periodically, Doolittle went back to accompanying the school choirs
and even played for groups her daughters were singing with.
Doolittle couldn’t keep the music silent.
Even Doolittle’s daughters keep music alive in their adult lives
because Mom taught both of them to play the piano and Mom is very
proud today they both have pianos in their houses. Laura sings with
the Lincoln Lutheran Choir and Lonna is a pianist.
Throughout all the years, her husband Rod has been a silent
supporter. Doolittle said she knows if he’s silent and doesn’t say much,
everything is good. He was a great help with the girls as they grew up.
Before the couple had their first child, Rod knew they were having
a girl. He told Doolittle he had a dream. He was driving his white
pickup and there was a little girl beside him on the seat. Before the next
daughter was born, he had a similar dream. The only difference was
there were two girls on the seat beside him.
The couple shares a very strong faith in God.
Today Doolittle knows having a stroke at such an early age is a
genetic throwback to her father’s family. All 11 cousins on her father’s
side have had heart attacks or brain aneurysms. Realizing she is very
lucky to be alive, she works particularly hard to maintain and also
improve her health – she wants to live to be 100. Recently she started
using essential oils and has seen great improvement in her right hand.
They also energize her, keeping her very active.
Doolittle’s inspirational life and strong spirit has led her to speaking
engagements where she plays the piano or organ and talks about her
perseverance. A few months ago when she spoke at a Meckling church
for a Fall Table event offering fellowship and music, she played one
song using her right hand, ‘What Wondrous Love Is This.’
“I call my presentation, ‘Bloom Where You are Planted,’ and I
believe I have been transplanted three times in my life,” Doolittle said.
She has very few down days, but when she does, she gets up the next
morning and goes out and does good things.
“My personal goal is to be adequate on the piano with my right
hand,” Doolittle said. “I may not play professionally with the right
hand, but I am teaching myself all over again – it’s the little things.”
Doolittle admits she is not a very patient student and she wants what
she wants now but she realizes patience will help her perseverance to
succeed.
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